You Like Music? So Do I! Where to Discover and Share Music.

As an avid music and movie connosouir I love to find new bands to listen to on a regular basis. It’s a cheap and fulfilling hobby to have, especially when you have friends with similar interests in music, since you can share music for free in a lot of ways. I’ll share with you some of the ways I’ve discovered (with a little help from my friends.)

Pandora: Pandora is a well-known internet site that plays out like a radio station for what you like. You enter the name of a band you like, they will generate a station around that band. You can also see the lyrics of most music, and get a bio on the band. Here’s what Pandora has to say about how they choose the music they play: “To understand just how we do this, and why we think we do it really, really well, you need to know about the Music Genome Project®… It’s the most comprehensive analysis of music ever undertaken. Together our team of musician-analysts has been listening to music, one song at a time, studying and collecting literally hundreds of musical details on every track – melody, harmony, instrumentation, rhythm, vocals, lyrics … and more! We continue this work every day to keep up with the incredible flow of great new music coming from studios, stadiums and garages around the country.” Sounds cool, right? The only annoying thing is that the music stops after about 2 hours, and you have to hit a button on the screen to tell them “you’re still listening”. Small price to pay. Oh, and every now and then it throws you a curve ball. Michael Jackson on my A Fine Frenzy station? What?

Spotify: Spotify is relatively new to the United States, but just as cool, if not, cooler than Pandora.  You have to download it onto your computer, it doesn’t work like a website like Pandora. BUT it’s better in the way that you can listen to bands and songs ON CALL, whereas Pandora lets you pick a band you like and they generate the station around it. You can listen to stations on Spotify like a radio, rate the music you like, and if you log in through Facebook, you can see other friends that use Spotify, what they are listening to, and share music with them that you’d want them to listen to. You can sync your Itunes library with Spotify and create playlists. If you pay for Spotify’s premium account you can listen to songs on demand from your phone, whereas the free phone app is radio only. Read this over the moon testimonial for more details.

   Yes, it IS as simple as it looks.

Last.FM: Last.FM is a music recommendation site you can use to listen to new bands in a streaming radio style format using “The Scrobbler” while learning all about the bands you are listening too. You can link your other accounts to Last.Fm like what you listen to on your phone with apps like CloudScrob or by connecting Spotify to your account and even track your iTunes plays on your computer by downloading the computer app. It will tell you what you tend to listen to the most and recommend new bands based on your “scrobbles”. Like you don’t already know. In addition the Last.FM app for your phone allows you to use the streaming radio for free.

A little glimpse at Last.FM

Rdio: I’m checking out Rdio today, seems similar to many other streaming music playing websites like Pandora (but better!) with many many more choices. I’ll update again with results.

Band of the Day: Band of the Day is an app for your Iphone and IPad that helps you discover new bands on a day-to-day basis. It shows you a juxtaposition of a calender over a photo of a band, and you can click on the past days in the calender to see the other bands that were presented through the month. Through this app you can discover a bio, discography, lyrics and links to the videos. Don’t worry, it’s not all Indie music, there are a lot of genres on there. But the music IS all new stuff, no blasts from the past.

Band of the Day. It just looks fun.

Discovr Music: Discovr Music is an awesome app for the IPhone ($1.99) or the IPad that helps you to, well, discover music. You put in a band you like, and it shows up in a little bubble. You can then find out about that band with albums, tour dates, bio, and more. But wait, there’s more! You can tap on the bubble, and like a little spider, more bands similar to that band pop out of the bubble attached with little legs. Tap on as many bands as you want and create a twisted web of music. It’s pretty fun. They actually have an app now for movies as well for all you film buffs.

This is what Discovr-ing is like.

ITunes Library Side Bar: This is a given for anyone that has ever used the ITunes library. You’re probably also seen that little symbol that looks like an atom floating at the bottom of the screen. It’s the genius symbol and you can select a song from your OWN library and ITunes will create a playlist for you. I do this in the car on the Iphone when I’m feeling lazy and don’t want to skip through the shuffle or pick an artist to listen to. I pick one song and let my phone do the rest. But while in ITunes, you can also listen to one of your own songs and a new group of artists you don’t have will pop up in the side bar for you to check out. You can sample the songs on the spot. It’s pretty easy. But if you want the song, you have to buy it through ITunes.

Turntable.FM: Turntable.FM is a fun site more for entertainment purposes than strictly music sharing. It’s a social music site where you are the DJ for a room full of other DJ’s and listeners. The DJ’s sit at a “table” and take turns playing music for the people in the room. You can use this site to be a listener, choosing a genre of music (songs played by other music listeners) or you can be the DJ, and play music with people like you, and discover new songs in the process. You can also play this site like a game, earning enough song points to buy your avatar a little costume so you look cooler. Hey, you can even be a little monkey. You can also talk to the other people about the music you have in common. Not into the song that’s playing? Rate it, and you can get it shut off. If you find something you like, but don’t know you can even be directed to buy the track right from iTunes or add it to your Spotify.

What do you like to listen to, and how? Happy Music Listening!

Thank You!

As the views from my blog reached an astonishing (almost) 5000, I just wanted to say THANK YOU to all of my viewers and followers! I truely enjoy writing this blog, sharing my tips, interests, and crafts with all of those that are interested in learning, and leave a bit of my own personality in each one of them. For that, I am truely grateful. I only wish I had time to do, and post more. Happy reading! Thank you!

30 Before 30

So as I hit the 29 1/2 year old mark, I saw a post on someone’s page about “30 before 30.” Like, 30 things they want to accomplish before hitting the 30 year old mark. Now I’m thinking, what do I want to do before 30? Well, the truth is, I don’t have a list. I don’t. I don’t want to set myself up for failure and in 6 months be whining about how far I thought I would be by now… So instead I will come up with a 30 before 60 list. That’s a little more reasonable, right?

1. Get a Master’s Degree. (Hopefully by 40.)

2. Travel to Maine and eat a lobster. A cooked one.

3. Buy a house and fix it up.

4. Travel to Europe.

5. Learn another language.

6. Have some kids and teach them how to be awesome.

7. Be financially stable. 401K, health insurance, savings, all that jazz.

8. Fix my fading tattoo. And get another one.

9. Run a sucessful business.

10. Make a difference in the world.

11. Live in a town that i’m happy to be a part of.

12. Marry (Or just be with long term) the man I love and can’t see myself being with anyone else.

13. Throw an amazing dinner party, and have cooked all the food.

14. Be able to afford an awesome vintage car. Even if I have to fix it myself.

15. Go to an amazing flea market, and spend the day shopping.

16. Travel to Georgia, New Orleans, and be a total tourist.

17. Try a new hairstyle/ color.

18. Run a marathon.

19. Be happy with the physical shape i’m in.

20. Volunteer for a good cause.

21. Publish a memoir.

22. Take another road trip. One where I can enjoy the drive.

23. Have an awesome studio/ craft room.

24. Learn to love winter. Or better yet, not hate winter.

25. Have 20/20 vision.

26. Have happy, healthy children that don’t despise me. And be able to help them in college.

27. Take one day and ride a bike to a farmer’s market, buy fresh food, cook it, and be happy I did so.

28. See both oceans again.

29. Live life making wise choices.

30. Not regret a single thing.

Happy list making!

Tipping: From a Server’s Point of View.

So I’ve been a restaurant worker for about 4 1/2 years now. I love working in the restaurant industry, it’s actually quite relaxing for me. Most would say it’s hard, it’s stressful, it’s frustrating. You have to learn a menu, be able to sell that menu, take the table’s order precisely, not mess anything up, time the dishes to come out at the right time, not spill anything, learn an extensive wine and or cocktail list, and pour a bottle of wine without poking anyone in the eye or breaking a cork in the bottle, wait on many tables at once and be nice to ALL of them.

It’s a whole lot of memorization, skill, acting (yes, acting), multitasking, and professionalism, wrapped into one. Plus, I work with friends, so it’s a little of social time mixed in. So when I wait on tables, I get to just focus on just the tables. I can’t start to think too much about other life related troubles or I’ll get distracted. That’s why I like to wait on tables, it’s very zen for me, and there’s a free drink at the end of my shift. (Doesn’t hurt!)

Now for the soapbox. I’ve heard from new co-workers a lot lately that they aren’t getting tipped properly. I don’t complain because I understand people, and why they tip the way they do. I know I’m doing the best I can, so If I get a bad tip, I chalk it up to some of the reasons i’ve listed below. Yet some servers work their butts off, waiting on multiple tables at a time, only to get left 5% on a $100+ bill. Why is this?

One thing could be that the people are cheap. They have never worked in the restaurant industry a day in their life, and they think our hourly wage is more than just a fraction of minimum wage. They think all we do is write down what they want and ‘boop-boop’ it into the system and bring the magically prepared food to the table. And they think that we don’t deserve much of a tip, because we “didn’t do much”. We didn’t cook the food, buy the food, prepare the food, or plate the food. In that case, please, don’t tip me at all, go into the kitchen and leave the money in the food window. I’m sure the cooks would appreciate that. If you can afford to go out to eat, you can afford to tip. And if you can’t, STAY HOME.

Then there’s the people that think we shouldn’t get tipped for opening a bottle of wine. You order $60 in food and $40 in wine, so you think it’s ok to just tip on the food. Hey, all we did was bring you some wine, right? Well what do you think happens with the food? All I did was take an order for food, and bring it to you. Do I not deserve a tip on that? I work just as hard to memorize the wine, wine flavors, names, what foods they will go well with as I do the ingredients in the food menu. Only when I bring you wine, I actually have to show it to you, open it carefully, stand there while you taste it, pour it, and bring you a wine chiller if need be, so I in fact, put just as much effort into the wine as I do the food. Again I say, if you can’t afford to tip a server, STAY HOME.

Not as easy as it looks sometimes. Image credit to Grape Squeeze.

And then there’s bad servers. I’m guilty of not tipping well if I go out to a restaurant because the server was bad. I know that the server is the one that gets the tip, not the cook, the hostess, or the wine maker in Italy. If you forget something and don’t bring it out at all, if you have a bad attitude, if your hygiene is bad, if you took FOREVER getting me a simple glass of water, or a many other plethora of reasons you have a bad server, I say to those servers, it’s just a serving job. If you don’t like it, go work somewhere else. I once went to a diner where the servers were watching an episode of Dr.Oz about bowel movements and poop on the TV in the dining room. And didn’t see a problem with it. When I asked her to change the station she replied “it’s not as bad as yesterday’s episode.” Um. WHAT WAS ON YESTERDAY?!

In the end this little article is written not only as a little rant, but it gives a little insight into the job of a restaurant worker and why they do- or don’t deserve a tip. But if you have a good server, they were well informed, dressed nice, and have a pleasant attitude, and nothing was screwed up at the table that was the server’s responsibility, that’s all you can really ask for while dining out. So if you can’t afford to leave AT LEAST a %15 – %18 tip for them, please just STAY HOME. It’s just insulting, and makes you look bad. Plus, if you tip well, and I see you for a second time, guess who’s getting the BEST service ever. You.

Happy dining out!

Words of Wisdom

So, I’ve learned a thing or two in my day. I’ve had a horrible childhood, with verbal and physical abuse, struggled with the alcoholism of others, grew up very poor and insecure about who I was as a person. It’s hard to find your path when you aren’t confident about yourself or any choices you make. But over time, I’ve had to deal with most ordeals myself, and learn some important life lessons along the way. One of the reasons I’m a confident person today is because I feel I’ve been given certian gifts that have to do with design, compassion, and creativity, and I felt it a shame to not be appreciative, or to waste them. And today I was thinking that my (almost annoying to others) optimistic attitude is a huge part of life. If you look at life with a negative, pessimistic, and cynical eye, you won’t appreciate all that this life has to offer. If you are positive, optimistic, motivated, and just appreciative of life, you will see all the beauty it has to offer, and everything you do will just feel better. Here are some sayings that I draw motivation from.

Good ones, huh? I hope anyone out there that struggles with trying to figure out what this world is all about can find their motivation somewhere.

Happy Soul Searching!